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WHATEVER YOU GIVE OUT, YOU SHALL RECEIVE IN RETURN:

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As humans we have to be cautious with our actions and steps because whatever we give out, we receive it in  return whether good nor bad. A story was told of two dogs that entered into a room at separate times, one comes out wagging its tail while the other growling, a woman who had watched this happened wondered and went into the room to find out what could possibly make one dog happy and the other so mad. To her greatest surprise, she found herself in a room full of  mirrors, as she was moving Helter skelter to find out what the reason was, so she saw her image in those mirrors moving Helter skelter, then she discovered that: The happy dog found only happy dogs looking back at it, while the angry and growling dog found angry/growling dogs  looking back at it. Sometimes we do evil to to those around us, out of envy and jealousy  we do anything within our power to pull a brother down, we oppress, suppress and frustrate people both physically and spiritually forge...
 If sons of the slaves are consistent and Hardworking,   they will not just wine and dine with sons of slaves owners in near future, but they will also rule over them and even enslave them if they want to avenge.

HAS YOUR TODAY ENSLAVED YOUR TOMORROW?

Anything worthwhile demands your attention, focus, and perhaps, a bit of sacrifice. Be it your personal growth, business, relationships, or life in general, you need to put effort into it to gain desired outcomes. In pursuit of a far-flung future, there are sacrifices we make today. We probably relegate our short terms desires, goals, and needs to the back burner in anticipation of achieving that big picture, the long-term goals. And, many times, it’s needed when you do have that long-term vision. As humans there are some sacrifices that we make to reach certain levels in life, a sacrifice is a price paid  to gain other considerations or to give away something valuable to get at least a possibility to gain something else of value. For you to become successful, you must be willing to make a sacrifice of allowing "your tomorrow to enslave your today", people who allow their today to be enslaved by tomorrow are great people, they are people with vision, they reason beyond others...
 We all are actors/actresses on the stage called the "world", acting different scenes everyday as assigned to us by our producer and director known as "God". If you are lucky acting a good part today, never look down on a person acting a bad one. Who knows if you could be directed to act a bad one tomorrow?

IT IS HIGH TIME I GOT MYSELF A WIFE, A FOUR YEARS OLD BOY TO HIS FATHER:

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 A four years old boy while drinking a locally made alcohol called "burukutuu" reasoned and said to his father Boy: father I think it is high time I got myself a wife. Father: oh wow! But you don't wake up overnight and decide to marry, at least you have to be in love with someone before getting married to the person, or are you in love already? Boy: sure Dad, I love Grandma, and she said she loves me too, grandma is the best cook and story teller in the whole world, I can't wait to marry her! Father: that's nice but we have a little problem here. Boy: what is the problem dad? Father: She happens to be my mother, how can you marry my mother? Boy: why won't I marry your mother? You married mine. The father was too shock to say a word.
 Beauty and ugliness are all mask, do not judge facially but inwardly.

NEVER STAY IN A PLACE WHERE NO ONE KNOW YOUR VALUE

 𝐍𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐲 𝐢𝐧 𝐚 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐬𝐞𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐯𝐚𝐥𝐮𝐞. A father said to his daughter “You have graduated with honors, here is a car I bought many years ago. It is a bit older now but before I give it to you, take it to the used car lot downtown and tell them you want to sell it and see how much they offer you for it. The daughter went to the used car lot, returned to her father and said, “They offered me $1,000 because they said it looks pretty worn out.” The father said, now “Take it to the pawn shop.” The daughter went to the pawn shop, returned to her father and said,”The pawn shop offered only $100 because it is an old car.” The father asked his daughter to go to a car club now and show them the car. The daughter then took the car to the club, returned and told her father,” Some people in the club offered $100,000 for it because it’s a Holden Torana and it's an iconic car and sought by many collectors” Now the father said this to his daughter...

THE SINS OF THE YOUNG SHALL BE VISIT ON THE OLD

Gina the lion of the jungle  who's beauty was everyone's talk lived in the Eastern part of Nigeria, in a town called Enugu, though Enugu town was known for beautiful ladies but Gina stoodout in them all. If she were to be a tree and Enugu town were to be a forest, she would have  been classified as: that tree called Gina was the god of the forest called Enugu. She was not just everyone's pray point but also the heartbeat of all men, everyone's desire was to have her as a wife but that was not  in her dictionary, she had wanted to have a taste of life, not only that she had wanted, she had tasted  and confessed that life is so sweet as honeycomb. She would take advantage of anyone's feeling and emotions whenever her mates who are single and searching asked her out by ensuring she embezzle their money, and would play around old and married men who are old enough to father her. She had not just a bundle of sugar  daddies but also dozens of them,  just like nai...

NEVER GIVE UP:

 𝙀𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮 𝙨𝙪𝙘𝙘𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙛𝙪𝙡 𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙤𝙣 𝙝𝙖𝙨 𝙖 𝙥𝙖𝙞𝙣𝙛𝙪𝙡 𝙨𝙩𝙤𝙧𝙮, 𝙨𝙤 𝙣𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧 𝙜𝙞𝙫𝙚 𝙪𝙥. 𝘼 𝙨𝙘𝙝𝙤𝙤𝙡 𝙗𝙚𝙡𝙡 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙨𝙤𝙪𝙣𝙙𝙨 𝙖𝙨 𝙖 𝙙𝙞𝙨𝙩𝙪𝙧𝙗𝙖𝙣𝙘𝙚 𝙖𝙩 8:𝙖𝙢 𝙖𝙡𝙨𝙤 𝙨𝙤𝙪𝙣𝙙𝙨 𝙞𝙣𝙩𝙚𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙖𝙩 2:𝙥𝙢... 𝙞𝙩 𝙟𝙪𝙨𝙩 𝙖 𝙢𝙖𝙩𝙩𝙚𝙧 𝙤𝙛 𝙩𝙞𝙢𝙚, 𝙨𝙤 𝘿𝙤𝙣'𝙩 𝙚𝙣𝙫𝙮 𝙖𝙣𝙮𝙤𝙣𝙚. 𝙉𝙤𝙩 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙬𝙖𝙡𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙛𝙖𝙨𝙩 𝙝𝙖𝙨 𝙖𝙣 𝙖𝙥𝙥𝙤𝙞𝙣𝙩𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩. 𝙎𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙧𝙪𝙣𝙣𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙨𝙩𝙤𝙢𝙖𝙘𝙝!...𝙄𝙛 𝙖 𝙧𝙤𝙨𝙚 𝙨𝙢𝙚𝙡𝙡𝙨 𝙗𝙚𝙩𝙩𝙚𝙧 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙣 𝙩𝙤𝙢𝙖𝙩𝙤𝙚𝙨, 𝙄𝙩 𝙙𝙤𝙚𝙨𝙣'𝙩 𝙢𝙚𝙖𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙧𝙤𝙨𝙚 𝙘𝙖𝙣 𝙢𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙖 𝙗𝙚𝙩𝙩𝙚𝙧 𝙨𝙩𝙚𝙬. 𝘿𝙤𝙣'𝙩 𝙩𝙧𝙮 𝙩𝙤 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙥𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛 𝙩𝙤 𝙤𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙨. 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙖𝙡𝙨𝙤 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙤𝙬𝙣 𝙨𝙩𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙜𝙩𝙝, 𝙡𝙤𝙤𝙠 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙞𝙩 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙗𝙪𝙞𝙡𝙙 𝙤𝙣 𝙞𝙩. 𝘼𝙡𝙡 𝙖𝙣𝙞𝙢𝙖𝙡𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙚𝙭𝙞𝙨𝙩, 𝙬𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙞𝙣 𝙉𝙤𝙖𝙝'𝙨 𝙖𝙧𝙠. 𝘼 𝙨𝙣𝙖𝙞𝙡 𝙞𝙨 𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙩𝙝𝙤𝙨𝙚 𝙖𝙣𝙞𝙢𝙖𝙡𝙨. 𝙄𝙛 𝙂𝙤𝙙 𝙘𝙤𝙪𝙡𝙙 𝙬𝙖𝙞...

DOES TRUTH TELLING SET US FREE?

It was raining in the early hours of the day while people were in their huts,  a cock out of hunger decided to go out in search of green pasture however there was a drama as it met with a fox. The fox on seeing the cock smiled briefly and mocked the cock: " you this disrespectful cock who dare you pass on my way?  now there is only one condition that will make me to allow you go, kindly give me three truthful point why you are passing on my way and why I should allow you go" The  already sweating cock despite the cold whether sighed heavily and said:  1) if I had known that this way is yours, I wouldn't have came out not to talk of passing on it. 2) I know very well that you are not hungry, if you are part of me would have been in your belly instead of asking me questions. 3) if you could allow me go, on no account will I come this way not to talk of coming out when it is raining. The fox on hearing these three genuine points of mr cock decided to free it by saying: ...

HUMBLE YOURSELF EVERYTHING ENDS HERE

 Humble yourself everything ends here Yes it ends here All the shakara, from eighthen to eighty From morning to night Sunday to Monday January to December It ends here That seductive skin That oval face that turns every man on That flamboyant dress That charming  and elegant body It ends here That exotic cars That intelligence  That fifth degrees That beautiful wife  Those fine children That handsome husband My dear it all ends here That fame and prominence which you seek most That luxurious life That "upon all my wealth" That "do you know who I am?" It ends here That I am not your mate? I am richer than you  I am beautiful  Many boys and girls die for me Infact they fight to have me It all ends here That your good poem Your most sells book Your good English Your all round best It is just a matter of time That is the most painful truth to accept  Six fit awaits all of us That is where is where we all  gonna ends So we have nothing  We are gre...

WILL THERE BE LOVE LOVE WITHOUT MONEY?

When a  Question as such is thrown, it avails one opportunity to  expresses his or herself. There is an expression I often hear from people: "when poverty knocks on the door, love goes out the window" or  " there is no love without money" how true are these expressions? A question worth asking right?   Hehehe! I see this question intertwine with my unpublished romantic story book entitle " My Taste Of Love" just gather  five people and  ask each of them:  "what is your taste of love" and hear funny answers, to some it could be sweet, to some it will be bitter, to some funny and to some nothing but tragedy nor sadness.  Some would even spend an entire hour, days, weeks, months and even years narrating their experiences about the magic word called  "love". Same thing apply to gathering people and asking:  " will there be love if there is no money?" People answer questions concerning "love" base on their experiences, so...

THE UNINTENTIONAL LIFE STYLE

Shadrac was born and brought up in a typical village, his father was a hardworking farmer who believed  in Education tremendously.  His father Tersoo  would  adviced Shadrach alongside his siblings to consider Education as number one priority no matter what.  " Education is a key to success" he would  say. Though the father was not that rich but  was a local champion in his village, and would do his best to ensure his children school fees is paid timely.  Shadrach was his father's first male child, though the father had other female children who aged shady but  were married. As the first male child attention were given to him greatly, his parents alongside his siblings would treat him as an egg.  His father was a diabetic patient who  had been living on drugs.  Shadrach was in Jss 3, when his father's sickness Rose and he was taken to a private hospital at the Benue state capital called "makurdi" to no avail as he lost his fath...

ALWAYS TRUST YOUR PARTNER

A wife spected her husband to be having affairs with their house maid, then she set a trap for the husband by sending the house maid to the village for weekend without telling the husband. At night, the husband in his usual way said to his wife "Darling I want to go and watch wrestling in the sitting room" then he left. The wife silently went to the house maid's room and laid  down on the bed naked , and switched off the light and left the door open, within a short while someone joined her on the bed without wasting time and without a word, they had sex. After the fifth round she said: " it's enough, I have caught u, so this is how you use to have sex with her, and you will do two round with me and tells me, you are tired; after fifth round  you are still demanding for more right? Then the gate man shouted and replied "I AM SORRY MADAM I DON'T KNOW YOU ARE THE ONE"! Madam shouted "OH MY GOD!", then the husband rushed in and caught them. Mo...

LIFE LESSON:

She asked a question in a general Group on a WhatsApp platform.  I responded to the question professionally.  She tagged my response and typed: "you're an idiot! " Upon thinking through her response, I calmly replied: "Thanks so much. Now that you have pointed out my attention to this idiotic part of me, I'll surely work on it, God bless you my dear." And the whole platform shook. Over 118 people commented. They were so surprised by my calm response. Of course she was terribly bashed to the extent that she "left" the group. An hour later she called me to apologise for how stupid she's been etc. I forgave her and we became friends.  Then I later ended up handling her premarital counselling sessions.  Two days ago, on my Birthday, she and her husband surprised me with a gift worth over $10,000. This was a year after she called me an idiot.  Life Lessons from this experience: 1. MATURITY: Your reaction to negative feedbacks  or situations shows ho...

FOR THOSE WHO ARE TOO BIG TO APOLOGIZE IN RELATIONSHIP

 I never knew I hurt you this bad, but if you are hurt by my actions or in any way, kindly forgive me, I am human and not perfect, I never came close to you with the sole purpose of hurting you as you are making it seems, whatever that must have happened that you are feeling betrayed,disappointed and hurt must not have happened deliberately, for this I sincerely wish and beg for your pardon and I pledge never to allow a reoccurrance if given a second chance my love.      I still love you.     This is for those of you who are too big and proud to apologise in a relationship anytime something goes wrong, no one must be too big to apologise to his or her partner in times of misunderstanding, quarrel or disagreement, eject your  pride  and allow your humility build your relationship and take it to the next level.      Sorry for those who often times say:"I can not beg my guy, I can not beg my girl" both of you are not serious, for ...

AM I A MAD MAN?

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 He is abnormal and everyone knows he is, to an extent people call him a mad man, he saw me today and I was  surprised he called by my name and asked: "Mr Tsegba am I mad?"  Ideally I was suppose to say yes but obviously an  answer from a sane person should  be "No"  and that was exactly my respond.  “Thank you!” he replied. Then he whispered enquiringly,  “just because I don’t see things the way  people do,  makes me a mad man?”  "No", I answered again.  He bow  down and wrote “W”  and asked me: "what is this?"  At this point, I was already feeling ashamed, why will I involve in a lengthy conversation with him?  In a hurry to leave, I said “W”  You are right Mr Tsegba but you only see 'W',  because of the angle at which you are looking at it.  If you turn upside down, you'll see “M”;  If u look from the right side, it is “3”,  and looking at it from the left side, it is “E”.  T...