BECOMING A PEOPLE PERSON

Chris Tsegba had always been a solitary person, preferring the company of books and his own thoughts to socializing with others. He was content with his quiet life in Abuja, where he lived in a small apartment and worked from home as a freelance writer. One day, Chris realized that his lack of social skills was holding him back both personally and professionally. He wanted to be able to connect with others and form meaningful relationships, but he didn't know where to start. Determined to become a people person, Chris began by joining a local book club. At first, he was hesitant to speak up during meetings, but he soon found himself engaging in lively discussions and making new friends. He was surprised by how much he enjoyed the company of others and how fulfilling it was to share his love of literature with like-minded individuals. Inspired by his newfound social confidence, Chris decided to push himself further out of his comfort zone. He started attending networking events and social gatherings, where he introduced himself to strangers and practiced his small talk skills. He found that the more he put himself out there, the easier it became to connect with others and form new relationships. As Chris's social circle grew, so did his opportunities. He was offered more freelance writing gigs and even landed a few new clients through his networking efforts. He also found himself invited to more social events and was no longer the awkward wallflower in the corner. Instead, he was an active participant, engaging in conversations and enjoying the company of others.