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THE TRUE AFRICAN WOMAN

THE TRUE AFRICAN WOMAN. By Tsegba Chris African women, often referred to as the backbone of their communities, possess a rich and diverse heritage that reflects their strength, resilience, and unique character. Understanding the true essence of African women involves exploring their origins, considering the perspectives of scholars, recognizing the challenges they face, and celebrating remarkable African women like Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala, Nneka Onyeali-Ikpe, Yemisi Edun who have emerged as a source of inspiration. African women, hailing from a vast and culturally diverse continent, exhibit a wide array of traditions, languages, and lifestyles. They are descendants of ancient civilizations that have thrived for millennia, including the Egyptians, Nubians, and various West African empires. These cultures have deeply influenced the roles and identities of African women. Scholars throughout history have offered compelling insights into the essence of African women. Renowned anthropolog...

NOW THAT IT'S MY TURN

After Thursday lectures I went to high level to see one of my bosses, on getting there I was told he just left the house. I was so famished and I decided to approach a nearby restaurant for a supper. The food I ordered was given to me, I had washed my hands and began to eat the food. And suddenly, incame a very handsome man in suit with a briefcase. I looked at what he was putting on, the nice shoes he wore and the briefcase, then I said within myself that he must be rich. The Young man had entered and ordered food for himself, as he was eating, there came a very poor woman. The woman entered in the restaurant, then she bent down and greeted the young man with tears in her eyes: " Good evening sir". The woman greeted pitifully. good evening woman, how may I assist you?" The man responded gently. I need a help from you sir, I lost my husband two years ago and since then life hasn't been easy. It is easier for a camel to pass through the eyes of a n...

RECYCLE THE BROKEN PIECES OF YOUR HEART INTO SOMETHING BETTER

there are countless ladies who possess both beauty and character, just like there are many handsome young men who exude charm and personality. These qualities, however, are not finite resources; they are not scarce commodities. Instead, they exist in abundance, dispersed throughout the world, waiting to be discovered and appreciated. It is essential to recognize that no one should ever be enslaved in a relationship out of fear of not finding someone else who matches their partner's expectations. Love and companionship should be based on mutual respect, understanding, and shared values. It is crucial to embrace the idea that we deserve to be loved for who we truly are, not for who we think we should be to please someone else. Heartbreak is a common human experience, but it doesn't have to define us. Instead of dwelling on closed doors and missed opportunities, we can choose to learn and grow from these experiences. As a writer, I have come to realize that every situation, ev...

IF YOU ARE BORN POOR IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT BUT IF YOU DIE POOR, IT'S YOUR FAULT:

In life, circumstances beyond our control can greatly influence our beginnings, and being born into poverty is not a person's fault. However, it is essential to recognize that the choices we make and the actions we take throughout our lives play a significant role in shaping our outcomes. While one's upbringing may set the stage, it should not define their potential. Embracing a mindset that looks beyond one's past and focuses on their internal self is crucial. It involves believing in personal abilities, strengths, and potential for growth. By nurturing a strong sense of self-worth and cultivating a positive attitude, individuals can overcome the challenges they face and strive for a better future. Hard work, determination, and a willingness to learn are powerful tools that can help individuals transcend their circumstances. While external factors can present obstacles, the power to change one's life ultimately lies within. By taking responsibility for their act...

LIFE'S CHALLENGES

Life's Challenges: Life presents a myriad of challenges, each unique in its nature and impact. From the moment we take our first breath, we embark on a journey filled with trials and tribulations. These challenges come in various forms, testing our resilience, adaptability, and emotional strength. One of the most daunting challenges is uncertainty. Life is unpredictable, and despite our best efforts to plan and prepare, we often find ourselves facing unexpected twists and turns. Navigating through uncertainty requires flexibility and the ability to embrace change, even when it takes us out of our comfort zones. Another significant challenge is adversity. Difficulties arise in different aspects of life – be it in relationships, career, health, or personal growth. Overcoming adversity demands a courageous spirit and a determination to keep moving forward, even when it feels like the odds are stacked against us. Loneliness is a subtle yet pervasive challenge. Despite living i...

SEEKING COMFORT IN CHALLENGES

Good day, my brothers and sisters, despite the challenges that life may have thrown your way today. Some of you may have had a wonderful day, while others might have faced difficult and trying circumstances. It's essential to acknowledge that we all go through ups and downs, and we're here to support each other through it all. For those who had a miserable day, who struggled with depression, or faced daunting academic obstacles, know that you are not alone. There are others among us who have battled financial hardships or lived in fear due to the insecurity in our country. Some may even be facing the heart-wrenching reality of not knowing where their next meal will come from tonight. In times like these, it's crucial to turn to our Creator, who sees everything, including the secret burdens we carry in our hearts. Let us commit our problems to Him, knowing that He is ever-watchful and caring. Challenges are an inevitable part of life, but we find great solace in kno...

RESPECT BEYOND TITLE

Comradeship and academic achievement should never be an excuse for disrespecting those who may offer valuable assistance outside the confines of the school. It is crucial to recognize that the labour market holds opportunities and challenges that extend beyond the knowledge gained within the academic environment. As some of us have experienced, there is much to learn from the real world before stepping into university life. I recall working under a boss in Enugu, who had not received a formal higher education, yet he commanded respect from graduates and even those with first-class degrees. He demonstrated that practical experience and wisdom earned in the field could be just as valuable as academic accolades. The humility to acknowledge his expertise and respect his guidance was a valuable lesson. My fellow students, let us remember that the outside world is not defined solely by comradeship or the grades we achieve in school. The labor market values skills, adaptability, and a...